Vicious pity circles. How many people are stuck in delusional thought patterns of feeling sorry for themselves? How many people take ‘comfort’ with others who additionally feel sorry with them?
Another vicious cycle of misery and pain, what does pity serve? To an extent, it can help.. line drawn. Beyond that, pity serves nothing when it is a habitual pattern and actual direct action is lacking. People get stuck in sorrows and they do not grieve, they instead point the finger and say that someone or something is their oppressor and they do not realize they are feeding the said oppressor with that very thought.
Vicious pity circles. Self sorrowing regurgitated madness and lack of action in order to actually make changes that will effect one’s life. Why? Cowardice. For whatever reason, the querent feels actual change. Likely, and unfortunately, they are stuck in a stockholm syndrome, they fear their oppressor. Well, sadly without actually making changes they do not realize that they are still inadvertently feeding their oppressor by fearing them.
Vicious circles. There are many habitual patterns in which the human condition does not opt for spiritual growth. Why? Because, more often than not, making the right choices hurts. For that, perhaps I feel some pity. For it is because I have enacted so much growth upon myself and felt so much pain I do infact feel some pity but only to such in that extent. Beyond that, people become enablers, and largely unconsciously.
It is so unfortunate that people feel sorry for themselves and blame their oppressor, only to habitually reinforce the activities of said oppressor daily. This is a normal condition for many humans,
Are you stuck in one of these vicious circles? Remember the first step is always the hardest, but the swan dive into the unknown can be one of the greatest saviors albeit the fear of the unknown is holding so many back.
Comfort betrays.
Greg von Haesler 