At all costs, you can work things out. You can communicate. All conflict is a miscommunication. Somewhere on some end someone didn’t understand something. “What did you just say”? So it begins.
If we could be more mindful communicators our misunderstandings wouldn’t bave to escalate. If we really listened to eachother we could find the balance point and address the very specific apportionment of fault(s) and the exact problem which initially occured. Then, responsible individuals take responsibility and agree out of love for eachother. They know that fighting is a total failure of communication. Warfare is never, ever, ever desirable. Under any circumstance, shape or form, warfare is complete failure.
You can always come to understand one another if you actually pay attention. In our world, people are so mindless and not even listening to themselves,how can they be expected to listen to one another?
True strength is people who can communicate and understand eachother despite hardships and awkwardness . They rise above it. They find a middle ground. They accept fault , mutually . They love one another despite any misunderstanding . They know the value of love and never desecrate it.
Greg von Haesler 